How Can We Make Sure Our Wishes Actually Come True?

I’d like to share my personal experience with you. Chances are your endless search for ways to get your wishes fulfilled might end here. Just read carefully, and if you have any questions, I’ve set up a dedicated Q&A section. Are you ready?

It’s all surprisingly simple!

Spoiler: In real life, things truly can be simple, often right there in plain sight. But let me walk you through it step by step.

Childhood Magic vs. Adult Reality

When we were children, all it took was a fleeting thought, and our wishes would come true pretty quickly and in a seemingly magical way. As we grow older, however, our surrounding reality seems to become “thicker,” making it harder to influence. I won’t even mention old age, when not only do wishes become difficult, but even existing day to day can feel like a challenge.

So why does this happen? It’s all about energy. Let’s skip the deeper debate that “everything in this world is made of energy” (if you’re here, you probably already believe or at least entertain that idea). Simply put, wishes are fulfilled by energy. Children have plenty of it, adults have less, and seniors have very little.

Recovering “Lost” Energy

Reclaiming that “youthful” energy is a complex process. The biggest drain comes from our non-stop habit of overthinking. A smaller part is lost through improper care for the body (weird eating habits, no exercise, etc.). Let’s be honest: regaining energy isn’t quick or super-easy, especially when it comes to calming or stopping the endless internal monologue. Switching to healthy eating and exercising is easy compared to silencing that “all-important” inner chatterbox.

So, let’s assume you’ve figured out how to boost or preserve your energy, and then you make a wish. Many “gurus” claim that you should make your wish and let it go. But how do you really let it go so that your overactive mind (with its “When?” “What now?”) doesn’t keep chewing on the same thought? The trick is to find some way to “anchor” it and mentally place a period at the end (our mind hates unfinished business).

That’s pretty much the “boring base” of the process in a nutshell. Sure, we could talk in detail about each aspect, but I’m not here to give you fluff just to bulk up “useful material.”

So, What’s the Actual Approach?

Realizing how to break free from this loop genuinely shocked me. It’s so simple and obvious that I… well, I felt a mix of embarrassment and amusement at my own narrow-mindedness.

Again, I’m only sharing my experience. Whether you follow it is entirely up to you. Now, onto the key realization:

Kids have energy but no money.

Adults have less energy but do have money.

In our material world, money is the strongest form of energy exchange.

So why don’t we just swap our money (material energy) for our wishes, as if we were ordering a product from an online marketplace, like Amazon? Instead of exhausting ourselves with visualization, affirmations, mantras, and meditations—which might be only mildly effective—why not just approach it like a purchase?

Guess what? It worked! And it worked really well.

How It Works in Everyday Life

Think about your usual online shopping experience: you go into the app or website, put what you want in your cart, pay, and then go about your day, confident that your package is on its way. A few days later, you get a notification that it has arrived, and you pick it up.

I used the same approach for wishes. I’d open a payment app, type my wish in the notes/comments, choose an amount of money, and transfer it (initially, I’d send these “money for a wish” payments to friends). Then I’d go on with my life, forgetting about it. Why worry if the “item” is already en route, right?

Some time passes, and… the wish is fulfilled. To rule out mere coincidence, I picked a really specific wish as a test. Both my friend (who received the payment) and I were stunned when it came true. Honestly, it’s hard to convey the feeling in text.

Naturally, I kept experimenting, and the “magic marketplace” continued to deliver. But, like anything, there were snags and hidden pitfalls that forced me to tweak the method a bit.

Pitfalls and Snags

You’d think random money in someone’s account would always be a pleasant surprise. Spoiler: ironically, a lot of people get weirded out by unexpected payments.

Friends and Acquaintances

Issue #1: I can’t comfortably send them super-personal wishes or goals.

Issue #2: My “wish payments” sometimes triggered guilt or an awkward sense of obligation in them. And I get it! There’s this ingrained feeling of fairness.

Sending to Random Strangers

I tried random account details. People usually returned the money with messages like, “You made a mistake,” or “You must have the wrong person,” or “Uh… what’s this for?”

That’s not really a big problem, but it got complicated if the money landed in a business account (like a small business owner). They were legitimately concerned about undocumented or suspicious transactions.

You can imagine plenty of ways it could cause stress or inconvenience: you might accidentally send money to a minor and then have to deal with questions from parents, etc.

When the money was returned, my “magical marketplace” (this method) wouldn’t work. Obviously, once that exchange is undone, the wish is effectively canceled

“Useless” Methods I Tried

Throwing away/burning/ripping up money along with the piece of paper on which the wish was written. It didn’t work. Plus, it felt awful—like a “bad vibe.” Money (energy) is meant to flow between people, to bring positivity. It’s good to respect money: keep it in decent shape, give it, receive it, appreciate it.

Donating to someone in real need also didn’t work, because that money/energy is directed toward helping them with their hardships, not “buying” my wish.

Giving a note with your wish and some money to random people on the street… that was too bizarre, even for me.

So, it wasn’t easy to find a solution that wouldn’t bother anyone, that my psyche could handle without stress, and—most importantly—that would still actually work. Eventually I found a personal workaround, but it was too convoluted for most people. Meanwhile, word of this “magic marketplace” spread among my friends, and then their friends, and beyond.

So I set up a simple website for them and, eventually, for anyone else who might want to try. It brings me joy knowing that many people find happiness or see their wishes fulfilled through this technique. But I can’t claim credit for inventing it—it was just a random spark of an idea that I tested.

From here on, the text is organized as a FAQ.

Some folks will read everything, while others might jump right into it (though, personally, I think the info is worth reading—there are specific notes on which wishes won’t come true, etc.).

• What Do I Have to Do?
  At the bottom of the page, click the “Release Your Wish” button. You’ll be redirected to Ko-fi.com/wishrelease. In the "Your message" field, type your wish, choose an amount to send, and click Submit. One wish = one submission. Then forget about it—your wish is already “on the way.”

• Which Wish Should I Start With?
  This is important. Start with something easy and simple, then gradually move to “heavier” or bigger wishes. It’s exactly like going to the gym, except this is for your psyche and faith. You can’t jump straight to heavy weights from day one. Step by step, from lighter loads to heavier ones. I get it—you want everything right now, but let’s be honest: you’re unlikely to “buy” a brand-new house for five bucks. Try something small first. Once you see a few “delivered” results, you’ll be better prepared for more complex “levels” in this game.

• Are My Wishes Anonymous? Could They Be Shared?
  Ko-fi is set up to accept both payment and messages anonymously if you choose. Your wishes will be “released” (essentially, you write them in the comment field), and they won’t be published or shared.

• How Many Wishes Can I Release?
  From personal (and shared) experience: you can do multiple, but there’s a catch. Sometimes wishes contradict each other without you even realizing it. Then maybe only one of them works out—or possibly none. It’s usually best to do them one at a time, from smaller to bigger. Over time, as you get more comfortable, smaller or medium wishes (assuming they don’t clash with each other) can come true quite fast—like a normal Tuesday.

• How Should I Phrase My Wishes? Present Tense? Avoid “Not”?
  Throw out all the template scripts you’ve read before. It doesn’t matter. Picture a waiter approaching you for your order: how would you speak to them in everyday life? That’s how you write it.

• What If I Keep Thinking and Worrying About My Released Wish?
  Here’s a common example: ever needed a package urgently from an online store and kept obsessively tracking it, worrying if it’d arrive? And sure enough, problems arise—delivery gets delayed, the courier “can’t find” your address, or you receive a defective product. Similarly, when you’re in a rush while driving, you hit a traffic jam that “never happens” or every light is red. So here, the best approach is: you paid, you forget, it’s in transit, go live your life.

• How Much Should I Pay?
  From experience, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. For smaller, “training” wishes, people have succeeded with just a tiny amount (like the cost of a coffee). For something bigger, there’s a useful mental trick: find your personal boundary between “I wouldn’t even notice if I lost that” and “I’d feel a twinge if I lost that much.” For example, maybe losing $5 doesn’t affect you, but losing $10 stings a little. That slight discomfort signals that you’ve really “paid” (given up energy) for it.
  
  Then there’s also a familiar life principle: as incomes rise, people buy “better, pricier” products. The same might apply here: bigger wishes might require a higher “payment,” although it’s highly subjective. Ultimately, there are no hard rules—just personal experimentation.

• Examples of Wishes That Came True?
  It’s really personal for everyone. I prefer an unconventional life with unique situations and not-so-ordinary requests. For me and most people who use this method, the “delivered items” often arrive in a form that’s much greater than the initial “payment.” It’s like the “supplier” is unbelievably generous, giving free bonuses. One friend of mine, who was already doing fine financially, decided to “play” with reality. And oh boy, the results that came her way were so huge, it blew everyone’s mind. That, in turn, motivated people around her to try their own “magic marketplace” sessions (that’s what my friends started calling this technique).

• Which Wishes Don’t Get Fulfilled?
  Broadly, any wish that would harm someone else or infringe on another person’s free will (like forcing them to do something, or manipulative love spells) won’t happen. Also, contradictory wishes tend to cancel each other out. From experience:
  
  If your money gets returned, the wish typically doesn’t come true (the transaction is undone, so the “order” is canceled).
  
  If your wording is super vague, it might come true in unexpected ways—or it might take a very long time, especially if you keep obsessing and can’t “forget” the wish.

• The Biggest Question: Where Does the Money Go?
  It “goes toward” fulfilling wishes and basically serves its function of bringing joy and satisfaction. As more people learn about the method, more folks experience those moments of surprise and happiness. If you absolutely must know the exact path of the money, then this method might not be for you. You’ll have a hard time letting go of the wish if your mind is stuck on tracking every penny. Maybe you just need more time, or you’re just here to pass along the idea to someone else.

• My Wishes Are Coming True! How Can I Say Thanks for This Method?
  You might expect me to say, “No worries, I don’t need anything,” or “I don’t want compensation.” But here’s a paradox: from experience, no labor should go unpaid. So if you did try it, you liked it, and it worked—if you genuinely want to say thanks—there is a way. At the same page: Ko-fi.com/wishrelease you can make a small monthly donation there (subscribe monthly), and cancel at any time. It’s just an energy exchange. Also, if someone ever helped you for free—feed them or at least give them a token of appreciation. In terms of energy, it’s good for everyone involved.

• If My Friends and I Are Comfortable With It, Can We Exchange “Wishes” Among Ourselves?
  Absolutely. Do whatever you want. I’m only sharing my experience, which worked for me. Everyone’s mind is different, so maybe you’ll figure out a better way to “anchor” your wish and truly believe in it with your group.

• Hmm, the Site Looks Way Too Simple, and I’m Not Sure I Trust This…
  The site is intentionally minimalistic because the real value is not in the outer design, but in the concept itself. True effectiveness is often simple. Those who pour all their effort into high-end “packaging” might be selling something you don’t really need. I’m sure you’ve seen that before.

Final Words

I’ve said all that’s necessary.

Once again, I’m not selling anything, not teaching, not forcing, not guaranteeing, and I’m definitely not personally making your wishes come true. This page just describes my positive experience (and that of my friends). Whether you try it is your decision and your responsibility. But I’m certain it’ll help someone out there, changing their life for the better in a very real way!

RELEASE YOUR WISH

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